Destiny is predetermined, your choices can't affect things set in motion, one doesn't choose one's partner the mutual bond forms and strengthens through trials and struggles. Actively strengthen yourself, your resolve and train for trials to come. There will be many trials
One's partner changes over time or you meet a new partner along the way, sharpen your skills, social and otherwise and set an example.
We are at digital age, AI, digital life from simple programs to programmed sentience and more, it's expanding, all encompassing possibly dystopian net with a darker layers beneath.
In short one doesn't choose to be digidestined, you can grow stronger and wiser without special labels.